How to Manifest a Relationship?

By Jen Zmurchyk – Prairie Sky Wellness

The reason I have put the question mark at the end of the title of this post is that I have no clue how to manifest a relationship. I am not an expert at relationships in any way; in fact I have one failed marriage and a failed long term relationship after my marriage ended. I do not wish to throw shade on either of my two ex-partners, we just were not meant to be. So because of this, I am adding a disclaimer that I am not a professional at giving relationship advice to anyone.

However, I have been single now for almost 6 years, I am in my mid 40’s, and I am feeling that I would like to try again.

Maybe.

What have I done in these last 6 years?

Well the good news is that I have been very busy working on myself, and I feel that I have finally arrived at a place where I am ready for Mr. Right.

Some of the things I have done to work on myself in these last few years are:

  • Healing my own codependency issues
  • Working on my mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical health
  • Arrived at a place where I am financially secure and debt free except for a small balance on the credit card as well as car payments – which will be paid off in April 2020
  • Decided to follow my dreams to start a new career and I am currently in school
  • Cultivated healthy new friendships where I got rid of any and all toxic people from my old life
  • Developed healthy self confidence, self love, and self esteem
  • Gotten rid of anything in my life that did not serve me including excess material items
  • Began pursuing my love of writing through starting this blog
  • Raised two amazing children on my own who are balanced and healthy and are almost finished high school
  • No longer have the need for someone to complete me. I am complete in myself and I’m happy inside, so fortunately Mr. Right will not have the job of making me happy. I already am

So, how to manifest this ‘relationship’ that I desire….that is the question.

I feel the best place to start for me would be to develop a list of sorts. Not the kind of list where things such as tall, dark, and handsome are the criteria. Rather, I feel that it would be better for me to figure out the relationship I would like, rather than the man I would like, and God will take care of the rest.

A relationship that isn’t codependent, not based on money, and is a partnership where both people are working together to build something amazing together, yet are completely free as individuals.

A relationship based on a spiritual connection with a solid foundation of love and both parties are at the same level in vibration.

In addition, my relationship manifestation list will ensure that anything I desire in a future partner will also be things that I can give to them in return.

Reciprocity. Balance. Honesty. Integrity. Equal give and take. Freedom. No codependency. No toxicity. No B.S.

It’s a bit scary thinking about meeting someone new, and also having hope and faith that this person is actually out there for me. I do not wish to have another relationship failure under my belt. However, I am fully confident that what I am putting out there in the world will be attracted to me. Time to put the concept of manifestation to the test!

Prairie Sky Wellness

4 thoughts on “How to Manifest a Relationship?

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  1. Very thought provoking post! Relationships are serious business indeed. So maybe the best way to approach it is with humor in you life and finding that special one whose sense of humor ‘cuts like a butter knife!’

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